Importance Of Taking A Big Risk In 2014, Different Era For Women’s Submission Wrestling
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November 17, 2023,
During certain stages of our life, we are willing to take risks that we would not have earlier, and sense, we can’t later.
The examples abound.
Here is one.
The beautiful young woman who was raised in a very conservative environment marries a traditional male who tends to be very responsible but controlling. He has a view that women have sex to please their husband but receives little pleasure for themselves.
His wife went along with it in her twenties but as the children were getting older and she wanted more freedom, she and her husband were starting to drift apart.
They waited until the children went off to college before they got divorced.
Her choice.
Now, in her late 40s, she found that younger men were very attracted to her and she to them, especially handsome younger athletic males in their 20s.
She decided to take a risk.
She really enjoyed being with younger men and quietly became addicted to it. She wasn’t having sex to please men, she did it because she enjoyed it.
Her husband suspected he knew what was happening but was powerless to do anything about it.
Didn’t want to think about it.
She never married again but loved the freedom of having many young athletic males as lovers.
This was a risk she never would have taken in her twenties.
Eroticism can be very addictive.
Even though we know what the word addictive means, generally speaking, sometimes a stark definition brings clarity.
It means to be physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance or behavior and most important being unable to stop taking it or participating without incurring adverse effects.
Oh, those side effects.
Some of our associates know this first hand.
One attended his high school reunion and later in the evening along with group of his alum and their spouses, they were comfortably sitting around and the subject turned to sex.
Doesn’t it always?
Especially in a small intimate group after they’ve had a few drinks.
Everyone was having a good time until one beautiful woman, recently separated from her husband, lamented that one of the reasons she was leaving him was that he was addicted to porn.
A sigh went across the seating area among the women.
The men remained silent. We think you can guess why.
Our associate did not dare say a word but instead quietly thought, aren’t all men addicted to porn?
Later he was going to cover a very small intimate event for Femcompetitor Magazine, back in the time period when Femcompetitor covered women’s submission wrestling.
Their coverage of those events ended in 2016 as they switched to female sports and entertainment, primarily because they found Fetish Models to be very non-cooperative.
He met the recruiter.
The recruiter was a super nice friend as they had worked together for years.
She informed him that after Femcompetitor’s shoot, there would be a little delay because she was first going to have two gorgeous curvy models wrestle for Academy women’s wrestling and wondered if he wanted to stay and watch.
Here comes the curiosity.
Academy Wrestling engaged in female semi to competitive wrestling where, after the match is done, the loser gets dominated with a strap-on by the winner.
You already knew that right?
And so did he.
Privately.
He had reviewed the Academy site before because after all he has to do his research (a true professional).
Here comes the urge and risk.
Now that his shooting for Femcompetitor Magazine was finished, he could leave or stay and watch an Academy wrestling match up close. Something he thought that would never do. Certainly not back in his days in organized religion.
Our professional associate had never ever been to this type of affair before.
When he worked other events, since he knows people in the industry, he could have attended and covered an Ultimate Surrender gathering but decided not to. In some ways he is a purist with the feeling that once the sex overwhelms the element of wrestling, it’s not really true wrestling anymore.
In his mind, then it simply becomes porn and he is not into that.
He always declined those invitations.
Finally, he decided to take the risk with Academy.
The experience was surreal.
A gorgeous blonde feminine beauty, that loves to be thoroughly, absolutely, positively, creatively, aggressively and massively dominated was the more experienced wrestler.
Her opponent was new to wrestling.
So the blonde played the role of the wonderful teacher with all of this great advice and about ten minutes into a very slow, erotic and extremely competitive match, something intriguing began to happen.
The smaller feminine new girl started to submit the blonde and then dominate her in very real action.
Well, if you ever watched Academy, you know what happens at the end.
Our associate had never seen two women have sex together before, especially with a strap on so he decided to stay and watch except the newer girl was having none of it.
Wrestling nude is one thing but having a male watch her have sex is out of the question.
Our associate quickly complied and left the room.
Now he could have gone for a walk on this very hot San Jose day but instead he decided to stay inside of the non-air conditioned building and place his ear to the wall.
What he soon heard was the blonde screaming in very real primal screams of both pleasure and pain. No faking it. This feminine blonde was thoroughly enjoying being dominated by this smaller inexperienced girl who caught all of them by surprise in how she dispatched of the veteran.
This went on for about 30 minutes.
Finally they invited him back in as the girls dressed.
What were his conclusions afterwards?
According to him, if he is honest, he was really glad that he saw it.
Once.
He also felt something else.
He’s never going to do that again. Whatever that was? Something internally told him not to dine on a steady diet of that.
Do so and there could be addictive consequences.
You’ve probably heard the line in serial killer movies; he crossed a line and he didn’t even blink.
For our associate, he crossed a personal line and he did blink.
Came close to the erotic fire but made sure he didn’t get burned.
He’s never remotely done that again, but make no mistake about it, he didn’t regret doing so.
He took the risk back in 2014.
Why is that significant?
It was a time period when the female submission wrestling community was an incredibly different place.
The Armory, where Ultimate Surrender was shot for years, closed down in 2017.
The coverage of FCI women wrestling sites have completely changed since then.
Grappling Stars (GS) was originally filled with stories about the San Francisco Bay Area erotic wrestlers. Today, not a story about them at all. For years. Currently, photos of women wrestling are there, but primarily in leggings. GS does not write feature articles about Fetish Models and Session Women at all. They cover the competitive matches with reviews but no worship articles.
Femcompetitor Magazine began as a fetish site and primarily wrote about the DWW Girls in profile worship form and published positive pieces on Session Women, promoting their sessions. After 2016, none of those topics were ever covered again. In fact, there are no women’s wrestling articles at all.
Finally, FCI Women’s Wrestling Magazine does very few Session Women profiles and tends to write from a real sports review basis of fully competitive submission matches only and covers the professional female MMA industry as well.
So, you see, what our associate attended in 2014 could never happen today.
Big life lesson.
Life is about right now. Don’t think I’ll do this later because there is no later.
Time changes everything.
When you are finally ready to take a risk, to do something that you always wanted to, when is the time to do it?
Right now.
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